What makes you different?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Why do atheists love to preach against Abrahamic religions and mock God? Even if they do not fear the eternal fire of hell, pious Muslims will certainly not leave them alone and will take brutal revenge until they surrender and repent of their sins.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

So who has worn a cock cage. One of my guy FWBs put one on me last Sunday and left with the keys? I was very nervous at first but have calmed down. Told me he'll unlock it tomorrow.. Let me know.

Agree?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

How do I become a Buddhist, and can someone explain Buddhism to me?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

To a flat Earther, what's wrong with the idea that gravity is simply a force inherent to space which operates only in one dimension? Why do they go further and try to deny gravity rather than just saying it's different than physicists claim?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Can you make it?

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Why is fitness important?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Why is porn so addictive?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Could humans be selectively bred, like dogs, to create 2 subspecies that can no longer have offspring? Do I not understand selective breeding properly? Im not worried about the moral implications, just the science please.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

What do you think of Andrew Tate?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

What if he’d come outside?

President Trump kicked Zelensky out of the White House. Is it over for a deal?

So, keep on experimenting.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

What is the irony of life according to you?

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Why do flat-earth conspiracy theorists believe that photos from space, including those of satellites, are fake?

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

How do you know if your husband loves you truly and deeply?

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

What makes you YOU.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

I like this guy and his personality is AMAZING. He’s everything I want EXCEPT I’m not 100% attracted to him. I’ve dated some really hot guys and I’m wondering if that’s ruined dating for me? What do I do?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Without experiments, is life worth it.